35 has come and gone. It was a painless and almost perfect birthday.
I spent time with great friends, had a nice break, and quiet family time.
This year was the first year that I didn’t think to myself, ‘that was nice, but…’
Enter more soul searching…
Here is what I know for sure:
The first 35 years are life is just practice; opportunity for trial and error.
Family will always be family.
Friends will be family.
Family will not always be friends.
Best friends will be whom you least expect.
Quitting is for quitters. Quitting sucks. It is forever.
Life will always have ups and downs.
Drama is not necessary; run the other way when you see it coming.
Death and loss hurt.
The beauty of what is before you is temporary; enjoy it while it lasts.
Tell people you love that you love them.
Don’t expect an “I love you” in return. That’s not what it’s about.
Be satisfied with what is present. It could be more abundant or it could be gone.
I something really sucky happens, sleep on it. Dad is right, it will be better in the morning.
The first 35 were more downs than ups, but the payoff in knowledge makes it all worth it.
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